bout myself and to others as well..

haiz... anyday has come...
usually at this hour i will still be sleeping on my bed... lazy pig... hahaha.. but now..for this past nearly 4 weeks... i've been waking up at 8 o clock in the morning...
haiz... now i'm in my dad's office... haiz..
sit down here.. with my own new laptop... typing this lame blog...
jus for fun... jus because i saw someone's blog.. her blog was a very good one.. she really says things bout herself... and that was a bit things jus like me.. she touched on the incidents that was also been through by me.. hmm.. and this was her blog....
= "Izzit me or them???" =
It has been a long time since my 1st blog was post..
Well there is dis lil topic which i really wanna share wif u all..
I wanna noe how u guys handle bad feedbacks from frens...
Plz do share wif me...!
Each and every human beings had sumthin inside which attracts ppl...
But yet, in d other hand...
There r also sum lil lil things in you which might annoyes ppl..
I guess most ppl has it...
But ppl nowadays dun really realize tat ourselves r havin bad attitude..
Even if ppl told one tat their attitude r having seriou prob which drive away frens around u..
The 1st reaction of most human being wud be..
"Com'on i m just fine.. Nuthin's wrong wif me! Mind ur words... U r juz jealous!" n so on...
9 person from 10 wud haf such thinking...
It's kinda wrong...
I use to ignore others feedback...
Why? Cuz i felt hurt in a way tat i felt myself was ok...
NO i was not.. I finnaly came down wif a conclusion tat...
I must find out y do ppl think i m such a problematic person...
So ever since tat i find tat whenever ppl talk bad bout u...
They do haf a point!
No doubt tat there r ppl hu just like to stab ppl from their back 4 d sake of jealoucy..
But sumimes d problem might oni be YOU!
Seriously, ppl dun juz talk bad bout u or tell u tat u haf bad attitude just 4 d sake of havin fun...
Ur attitude might really be bad..
But sumtimes u juz wudn't realize it until sum1 told u so..
I noe every1 wud take ourselves as the most least attitude prob n so on..
V neva realize when v misuse words on pp which offend ppl..
So v can neva be so sure tat v r rite when ppl tell u tat u r wrong..
Wut i get was... Last time i used to haf serious attitude prob...
I admit it.. Cuz i m ashamed of myself 4 once being such a person...
Dun b afraid 2 admit ur sins cuz if u wud to change is still a deed..
I analys wuteva bad feedbacks tat my frens gif...
YES at first when all these feedbacks were blew to ur ears.. It hurts..
But wait! U shud be happy tat there r ppl hu tell u tat u r havin attitude prob..
Listen, Analys n Change if is really needed...
Dun always say I think i m ok wif my attitude... There is nuthin wrong...
Cant u c? once u had those thinking...
It shows tat u r a person hu dun accept feedbacks, stuborn, self centere....
There r oni 2 choice..
U change n every1 is happy wif it..
U dun change but u wud get more enemis than frens..
Tell me.. nono.. ask urself deep down ur heart..
Wud u prefer to be a person hu every1 likes..
Or wud u prefer 2 always stay where u r, lying 2 urself every1 likes u but actually they dun...
Just remember.. If ppl cum telling u tat u r havin problem..
Take it... but dun take it as a hard thing..
Dun be sad.. May be u shud be sad 4 oni a few minutes..
Then start be rational...
Think! Think of a solution... Make a choice..
Wuteva choice u made... Just remember make a choice which u wont regret..
Anyway d choice is in ur hand..
Even is wrong... Let it be.. Cuz u choose to be litat..
Even if oneday u advise ur fren to change but he/she dun listen..
Nevamind... Dun try to force her... Cuz is he/she's choice..
U did wut u cud to helpin he to be a better person..
Sumtimes v just nit to think out of the box...
V learn from mistakes...
So gif those frens of urs a chance to learn from mistakes..
Gif urselves a chance to grow up to be a better person..
Is till not late to notice wut is wrong n right..
As long as u had the heart to do it..
It is a right thing!
I m posting dis..
Cuz i find tat i haf sum frens hu dun like accepting feedbacks..
But taking those feedbacks as a joke tat ppl r jealous or gossiping 4 fun..
Seriously.. This wudn't matter anymore..
Someday somehow he/she wud noe how 2 deal wif it..
n i hope tat u ppl out there...
Dun be mad at those ppl hu talk bad bout u..
B happy cuz they notice wut is wrong in u..
So thank them in a way tat they notice sumthin which u can't..
Hopefully you guys understand wut i meant..
Do leave me a comment or anythin..
I dun mind u scolding me if u disagree wif me..
Cuz there is no way every1 wud agree in a same thing..
So drop ur opinions..
AdioZz~
to the owner that wrote the blog above.. er... i'm sry to copy ur blog.. but this is a true thing... i know i'm bad for copying ur blog and posting in mine.. so sry... and also neva asked ur permission.. so sorry... jus that wan ppl to know this more...
this also happens to me before... i do have a bad attitude.. before this.. and now.. present.. i still do.. cause no one is prefect.. so i'll try to listen what are the feed backs and also what should be done by me..
recently i also came across that i really got bad attitude... and this was really a striking one... so.. at first.. wat was really true.. that she said.. feels bad...pain.. and also.. hmmm.. anyways.. i'll try to listen to what the person told me.. hahaha... hmmm..
hmmm.. i really really sorry for what i did in the pass... so sry... anything that is done from the past... i'm sry... now to seek forgiveness.. for what i did... hmmm... hopefully u all will forgive me.. hmm...
anyways..anyone who read this... feel free to write me the comment.. or also u could sent me a comment saying what i did and what i offended u... hmm... thank you... i'll try my best to be my best.. at all times... thank you again...